When ever I have joined a round never have I declined it or been stopped from playing in it unless the host of the game boots me out.. and until that happens I will play in it and not decline like many seem to do on here and a round of golf is just that..a round of golf ..but if a player or players join one of my rounds then declines it after almost being loaded..they will not get a second chance to rejoin it just to decline it all over again..but I will give them another chance to rejoin it if they have not loaded more the 20 percent but that is the only other chance they will get..so bottom line is.. if you are joining one of my rounds do not click decline..stay and play it..and if I Have had some sort of past issues with ya before I will boot ya myself..other than that feel free to join..because when a player clicks decline it is the player most times that did it..not some glitch that booted them from the game take care and play well