On " matter ", i made the comment to a friend of mine once who had a demonstrably devil may care attitude, that whereas most people come equipped with a certain amount of gray matter, he was issued a full complement of " don't matter ". It served him well in the brief time he was with us, as he was always the go to guy for a great time, living larger than life, and it endeared him to a great many people. Unfortunately, as they say, " the flame that burns twice as bright burns half as long " and he decided to shuffle off this mortal coil at the ripe old age of 27. Sometimes, you just gotta hate it when it turns out you were right. RIP m'friend, " Norf ", you are fondly remembered.
Doc :)