saltiresfan:
Maybe I've just been lucky but I've yet to find anyone who is rude or insulting. Maybe if I start actually beating them...
Know exactly how you feel about that. ;) Maybe - just maybe someone will be rude to me if I beat them.
But yes - rude people on this game, or any online game for that matter) is something quite common. Sadly though ... it is "safe" to be somewhat anonymous sitting behind your monitor and whacking virtual golf balls to hell and back. Anyone who feels the slightest belittled by someone elses remarks in chat, is "safe" to insult, ridicule and log of without reprecussions.
I dont condone that behaviour at all.
But ... and this is a big but ... since players are based all around the world, people dont always make the best of sense when the only way of communicating is through a chat. Somehow ... the remarks we make in a chat, often reads different from the same remark when it is spoken. Smileys and all that are great tools to soften up any "harsh" comments. But people also use those differently.
For that reason ... what might seem like a funny remark can be conceived as an insult for others. This is not an excuse for rude behaviour or language though. Just something to think about, when people acts rude. Misunderstandings are some of the easiest things to accomplish when we can only "chat" with eachother.
I am like almost everyone else here ... I find it extremely rude when someone logs out of a game for shooting a horrific shot or whatever else reason they have ... but I also understand that I cant make everyone laugh about my (sometimes ... well ... most of the times ...) lame jokes about game play of myself as well as others.
Thats why I have given in and mostly play with friends nowadays. At least most of them knows me and my stupid remarks.
And hey ... theres always the Block option. Ensuring you wont go up against rude people again.