Al,
ev1 to his liking, and I don't like being encircled in f-words. I'm not immune to swearing but not so much in writing and not 5 times over 3 holes...
Should have used "asked" instead of "told" but that won't make much difference to certain ppl - attendants excluded.
I recognise and respect your adaption to the situation - yes, that word sounds better in my ears than respect.
Hit it straight mate!