AtlantaCoaster: I see no benefit in getting rid of random multi-player games as you have suggested.
Guess I read too much into it AC, to me it appeared your BEST SOLUTION was for everyone to only play multi-player off their friends list. Thus eliminating the need for random multi-player selection.
Keeping multi-player means we will still see "I hate quitters" posts. With the standard drone of go play ladders, play only with your friends, etc., etc., etc....
Nothing is solved. And the biggest problem with the social aspect of this site continues.