Totally agree with the OP, I don't have much trouble with this myself, but game after game lately has been rife with Players being unable to load.
E.G. Stroke play yesterday joined a 4 ball gets to the course, and Player who started the game won't load, 2 reboots back to the lobby and game finally starts, 3 holes later Player 2 won't load???
Player 1 gets sick of waiting and quits, Player 2 finally loads, but 2 shots later same problem, so he quits, another game ruined by this issue.
It happens often and occurs randomly, it just doesn't happen in other online games to the extent that it does on WGT.
These WGT fanboys 'round here that keep absolving WGT of any blame for this problem are deluding themselves.