Fair enough Roxie - I agree 100%.
It must happen quite a lot I guess. I was playing a random game, which happened to be with a female, and after the customary GL and all, I dared to ask the player how was the weather in their state (US) and was met with " if you want to chat go to one"and disconnected.
I hardly think I was making rude conversation, and it is something I usually ask players about their country or state, pure curiosity. I guess paranoia is a bad mindset too at times.
Hope you get to enjoy this game free of harassment in the future.
Sanco