I totally get the 'innocence' of this thread, such as it is put out there.. but on the heels of your (U.S.) Thanksgiving...maybe another thread that may not be quite the "little tinderbox" would flow with a better spirit.
Maybe you can re-word it to ask for opinions on the most friendliest folks and let the chips fall where they may....
Just a thought...
But, not to look the gift horse in the mouth (as a South African girl)... Bless Your Heart for the kind sentiment...
(see how positivity flows..?)
xx MOLLY