If I may,
I'm just a week into it. But I have noticed the same thing(3 seperate occasions). It doesn't take an I.T. to figure out, if theres a connection issue, or if some LOSER quit.! It's pretty obvious, when a player disconnects and doesn't come back(AFTER he blew the 1st hole or 2), that the player gave up, and has left you hanging..
I agree, there needs to be some type of deduction or just a notification next to your Avatar, that displays a players % of games completed. Rather on purpose or not.
If your using other apps while playing, or if you have a 56k connection, we should have the option to play with you or not.
Mike