Caddy04: All this doesn't really seem to help. Could someone kinda head me in the right direction.
Learn the carry of your clubs. Carry is the time a shot is actually in the air and this is crucial to know. Where the shot lands has as much to do with the result as anything.
The back 9 at BPB has nice, long, flat fairways. Set up a low wind practice game there and get into the fairway. Now you can hit an iron and watch the yardage meter. Note the number when you hear the thump of the ball on landing. Use the mulligan feature to repeat as many times as you need to and note the carry of each of your irons.
Now, when you're looking at a shot, start with where you think it will land. Adjust from there keeping in mind wind strength and direction, elevation and green speed if you're hitting an approach. Study what happens from where the ball lands when hitting the green, just like you would a putt.
On the wind, I think you might be adding too much if your example is consistent with how you do it. I would add 2-3 yards, not 6. Try using 1/3 and learn from there. Top spin offsets head winds and back spin enhances it. GL