UPDATE: Problem seems to be solved. With advice from members I did some rooting around. I had the settings correctly but due to a glitch it wasn't showing up. Did a few clicks and had my friend recheck again. She confirmed that it is now "peachy". Her words not mine.
I know I feel dumb a lot of times when I post a question. My fault for jumping into the game and not taking time to check all the facets of WGT. I do however appreciate the members that take the time to answer my posts and not make me feel like an idiot.
With that being said and solved. I'd be happy to play a game if invited.
Thanks as always.
AB