Mark,
I agree with your points. That is not the issue. WGT not doing anything about it is what won't change. Lately this is probably the most posted question / rant about the game. Any proposal to punish people for quitting never addresses how you determine that someone quit on purpose.
If someone plays a lot, it would be easy to have more than 3 disconnects in a month. Internet problems do happen in many areas, especially more rural parts of the world.
I don't know if you play on pc or mobile. If possible I would suggest playing only with friends, not strangers. That is the only reasonable solution available at this time.
Good Luck and enjoy the game.
phred952