Jerm65:
LizzieRossetti:
Glad I wasn't the only one whose first thought was less-than prudish.
And yes, I think it's always a good idea to be able to check someone's equipment before you play around with them.
Especially if one requires more strokes than one's partner in order to finish. It can be very frustrating if one's partner disconnects once they've finished, and before you have.
And it's terribly bad form, too....leaving one to finish on one's own.
Quite right. And as a woman this happens FAR too often. I cannot count the times my partners have suddenly lost interest in finishing properly, and contrary to popular belief, this is not always to do with equipment. I have to admit though, that being able to see a prospective partners equipment prior to playing with them would be not so much an advantage, but it would go some way to how I might plan my game thereafter, or even whether I decide to play at all.
I would say also that having long irons is not necessarily a be-all and end-all, for I find the ability to wedge with adroitness carries a certain degree of amusement and satisfaction and can have a dramatic effect on where and how you are later able to putt your balls.
Of course being able to hold your own with a driver will quite often dictate the final outcome and this too can be rewarding, as long as you are careful to aim well enough to avoid any spills onto a bad lie. Many a player has known the shame of hacking out of the fescue only to have the shot wilt and fall short of expectations.
As to how many strokes it might take to finish satisfactorily, well this can often depend on the intercourse during gameplay, for it is not always how good a player one is, but sometimes how a few choice words here and there stimulate ones partner so that mutually and together, a finish can be achieved, smiles all round and no regrets for the odd misplaced ball.
Personally I find there are opportunities to be had from the rough and for this reason I often go there knowing that a good result is exciting as much for the fear of the unknown as for any performance related skills I might myself possess.
My final point however, is one of caution. To have ones equipment on public display as suggested by the OP, might lead to certain types taking advantage of you where you yourself may not be suspecting it. I therefore urge that we all keep our various wares under wraps until you and your partner are alone and free to play without scrutiny. Whilst some do indeed like to be watched, this is not so for everyone.
Lizzie xx