For the OP: all this advice is perfectly clear and consistent, isn't it?
Perhaps we forgot to look at your actual level and the equipment actually available to you now or very soon.
For example, if upgrading to a decent putter is a priority, that doesn't mean much if there is not a good putter available to you now. Views on the Spider (level 19) differ.
A good driver will become available to you in the form of the R11 (level 29).
Similarly, nice irons are available in the form of the Burner 2.0 (level 15).
For wedges you already have some cheap Satin's available from level 14, or you could hold out for the more expensive Clevelands, which start becoming available to you at level 26.