"LOL.... Pal, you could'nt carry my golf bag."
In real life, you are absolutely right. If that is how you figure you will feel better about yourself, BitterPie, by putting me down arbitrarily, or making fun of my physical disability, go ahead at will, overindulge without restraint, all the more as it leaves me entirely indifferent. But do note that your attitude is small and cheap.
Here's what I suggest: stop assuming the worst about people, or casting blame on everyone but yourself, and just work on getting better at whatever matters to you.
Cheers!
:-)