Hey there, gr8 thread as you portray how i felt about this game when i first found it.
The way i went is i lvl up quickly doing ranked rounds and bought the lvl 35 ghost putter as my first club and it improved my score tremendously. I made tour pro quickly and once i reached lvl 59 i bought the G20 club set, purchased some superb wedges and got rid of those pesky starter clubs.
Now im close to tour master because of those clubs i bought and i enjoy them very much. I guess my advice would be is to look at clubs that are gonna take you all the way to tour master as lower lvl clubs might not do that and you dont wanna always upgrade your clubs just because you can. Waiting to reach lvl 59 b4 purchasing a club set stood me in good stead as i had to really learn how to put and get out of trouble which hopefully stands me in good form if i ever reach legend.
Any how was good reading your post and as i have only been plyn a couple of months i still get that feeling about this game.
Gl and enoy
ladzrls