Lonnie.
I get your points, they are good ones and I agree, to a certain extent.
It's definitely the ball factor and the fact that I don't want to buy balls with money or credits by watching videos, it's as simple as that.
I also don't want to invest any more money in any more clubs--so there's that too.
And so I find myself in the position of wanting to play at the level I'm at because I'm thinking it wouldn't be a lot of fun playing with the clubs I have and the balls I use at a higher level.
If you think it's lame I'm don't want to play at the next level Tees with the balls and clubs I have and just take the hit in terms of the level of enjoyment, I'm okay with that. I can understand people criticizing that. Maybe people think 'hey if you play this game, you have to be willing to do those other things like watching vids or paying money for better clubs and if you aren't willing to do that, then it's on you to accept the consequences--that being playing rounds that may not be too much fun.
As an aside, when I forfeit, I explain why I'm doing it on the 9th hole and, so far, the matches have been decided by then, but I also get that criticism too, in fact that's the one that hits home most to me, now that you mention it.
I guess it's moot now because I drained something like a 90 footer on the 9th hole yesterday, (not sure why I was even rolling the dice like that) and the eagle got me to -4 and in the Master level.
I am kind of bummed but whatever, I'll see what it's like.
Lastly, the thing I find pathetic is two fold: first, people quitting whatever 9 or 18 they are playing with others because they are playing badly or had a bad hole. Why do people do this? Just finish the round you signed up for, no matter how you're playing, right? People just quit round after round until they happen on a round where they play well? And they are able to go to bed at night? :)
Second and even more vexing and confusing to me is why people have to disconnect when they play in this lame manner instead of forfeiting. The former making everyone having to wait 2 minutes or whatever the time period is.
I know I'm a newbie in this game but I don't get that. I assume it makes no difference one way or another regarding your score so it's just simple inconsideration?
Or maybe there's something else I'm not getting.
Anyways...I appreciate the feedback, all.