Not sure how I missed this post. I haven't gotten new irons in quite some time, but here's a trick I used to use. Go to Community/Golf Courses - Choose Kiawah #11. I've never seen anything but default low wind on any of these. The fairway area that gets used is slanted a bit, so I'd always shoot for a cross wind down range.
No. You can't just restart, but it's simple enough to exit and just click Play Hole again. Almost as fast. You'll be playing from the short tees, but no biggee, since once in the fairway it's just going to be irons back and forth.
It's also in practice mode, so you get 15 shots before having to start over. When hitting 'backwards' take care on switching cams as you can only do it once. I'd just move the marker, switch cams and check the distance being aimed and choose club accordingly.
If patient enough the magic 1-3 MPH wind can be had, but 2-4 ain't bad.
Hope this helps.