Most of the spelling and punctuation in this post is diabolical. Most of it is incoherent and rambling.......
My take on this situation is (and I base this on the many rounds I have played) most people are just not good enough to play at a high, consistent level.
So because of this, they get in a round of golf, realise you're a good player and quit. They then go and find another round with someone with whom their level of competency matches. This is my main gripe. Quitters!!
Just because you are not as good as the next man, it doesn't mean they are cheaters, all it means is they are good at numbers, calculations, and hitting the ding. I have worked out that if you have a left to right cross wind, as long as you miss the ding on the left side of the line and as near as to it as possible, you will still end up roughly in the area you wanted to. Its called experience!!
So to sum up, stop moaning about better players and do what we all have. Practice, learn from your mistakes, take time to work out your next shot, use the right shot for the situation you are in.
I know I'm a good player and if I get beat by a better player, I take my hat off to them and congratulate them for the hard work they have put in to shoot low scores.