As a female, I was raised to never be too forward ... always wait for the guy to ask you out ... open your door ... pull out your chair, etc. I have carried this forward to this game as well, but I sure spend some nights green without any invites to play.
Since we're playing over the internet, it certainly isn't the fact that I'm not decked out to the nines, or my hygiene. So ... what is it? Are you afraid you might lose to a girl? Afraid to use foul language in chat?
Hey ... my mom was in the Navy, so I'm fully versed in "Sailor vernacular". You might even catch a few "colorful metaphors" coming from me when my game has gone south.
Don't be afraid ... invite me to play. Who knows ... you just might enjoy yourself!
Kat ♥