I am a tour legend , I play in Chelsea , and have no qualms at doing so. Not playing as much as I used to , not as consistent as I used to be , not as serious about the game as I once was. I play in Chelsea for several reasons . A quick game with no pressure to do my sponsorships , no longer bothered about the coins , keeping my CDP going (tho not sure why ! Tomorrow will be 3000 days ) , and main reason is I can play where , when and how I want to , because it’s just a game. I have more than enough worries, pressures and concerns in real life , not to have to feel I can only play this game where I am told I can.
I rarely find opponents chatting during a game , if they say they need the coins I would gladly let them win , if they asked advice or wanted to know anything I would gladly help . If they need equipment or want to try a particular ball , advise them to communicate . Perhaps you could explain to your players , it’s only a game , it’s an opportunity for them to seek advice or recommendations from more experianced players. its not life and death , it’s just a game . Lesley