renniw52: Are you a golfer or a gamer?
If we type in this web search; what is a "gamer" (use parenthesis) you can find an answer to any Philosophy you hold to. I'd make a change to your question. Imo it should read, Are you a gamer who also enjoys real golf?"
The dictionary shows us 1) a person who plays video games or participates in role-playing games, and 2) (especially in sports) a person known for consistently making a strong effort. Tiger Woods is a gamer, and not just because he plays a game lol (and I'm not talking about the girls either). He strives to do well and puts forward a strong effort.
The Big Fish Blog even has 2 separate surveys from 400 people asking a variety of questions, even direct ones like Do you consider yourself a gamer? Why or why not? Seems people playing games are just like people eating food. There's a huge variety of answers. 2 points can be taken from the surveys (at least imo).
The following are points made from the survey, not myself:
1. “I’m a gamer because I enjoy playing games. This is the only prerequisite.”
2. "A “non-gamer” is someone who is a game player but doesn’t identify with the term “gamer”.