I rarely have posted in forums for the simple reason that many sit like birds of prey....or better put vultures looking for ANY reason to then attack. Why? Perhaps out of crayons or Teletubbies aren't on, I don't know.
There is no right or wrong answer to all of this, when is posting too much etc. There are some GREAT people here. Yet to say this is a family one only need read the responses to many points made, often with sarcasm ( Thus I feel totally justified in things said ) rather than to simply agree or disagree. Far better to offer a different angle in which to look at things than try and belittle someone and the opinion shared.
Is THAT a family atmosphere? In my life "family" meant closeness, respect not scorn and ridicule. Before any of us including myself become so critical of every nuance in a post, ( I once tried to voice my opinion and the first reply was I didn't have enough paragraphs? LOL ) Perhaps step back and ponder this word family and honestly ask ourselves if that is indeed the atmosphere the feeling one gets? Read most any page and check the replies and it will not take long to see the almighty ones come swooping off their perch to then attack in ANY way they can find.
That's not about posting, too much posting, it's about having too much time to spend on the attack. To those wolves in the pack I say take up needle point, meditation...something.
Oh, and with a familial filled heart I say thank you....